I got a call from my sister in California this morning. She called to advise me that it was just about time to place our nonagenarian Mom in an assisted living facility. Mom had an episode this morning where she fell out of her chair at home and was unable to get up. She called the Fire Department, who had to break into her house, for help.
Mom lives in her house about a block away from my sister’s house. My sister looks in on her once a day, but wasn’t present for the incident.
So, after much discussion between Mom, my sister and I, we decided that it would be best to have her in a place where she can be cared for 24/7. That’s the down side of it. The positive side is that I think we can move Mom to Wickenburg, close to us.
I visited an assisted care facility a mere 1/2 mile from here. We often pass by the retirement ranch going to town. I liked what I saw, what they told me and the people there.
Mom’s a bit bummed about the whole thing, but I’m confident that when she gets here she will love it as much as we do. I sent her a brochure from the ranch along with a letter that states what’s to like about being here:
The little town of Wickenburg is a very good environment. We have clean air, a very low crime rate, it is quiet, has a mild climate and plenty of Western character. The only thing it lacks is YOU!
We hope to have her here for her 93rd birthday, Mother’s Day and many other happy days.
God bless your mom…
We have empathy with what you’re going through. My 83 year-old brother was in a rest home until the family was able to renovate his house to accomodate the wheel chair… wide door-ways, roll-in shower etc. Plus one of my neices is a registered
nurse and she was willing to provide day-care for a nominal fee …worked out pretty good.
Then there’s my 93 year old inlaws who still live at home but are increasingly needing more assistance. We help as much as possible when we are there and they have a house cleaning lady that also assists with meals…
Because of all this we will be moving back to our condo in Cape Cod so that we can be nearby if things deteriorate. No, they will not move to Alabama.
Good luck, and may God bless !!!
Thanks, Norm. We all get to that point if we’re lucky enough to live that long. Mom’s grandmother was 96 when she went. I was in high school and drove with my grandfather (her son) to her funeral in Montrose, CO.